I have noticed lately that many people comment about how pretty LittleZabba is and then as an after-thought they say something like, “Oh your older one is pretty too.” I hope that BigZabba doesn’t pick up on this and think that she doesn’t measure up. But after some thought I think she has a healthy self image.
We were at a party this last weekend and someone commented to BigZabba that she was pretty. She quickly responded, while running her hand through her hair, “I know.”
Then someone was taking pictures at the party and she was trying to get photos of each table. After she photographed our table BigZabba promptly got up and went to the woman and asked, again while tossing her hair, “Would you like to take just my picture?”
I think she is doing ok in the self esteem department.